For decades there has been a growing myth that men view women as objects of sex and nothing more while this may have been the line of thought for many, nothing could be further from the truth as, this in a way has made some ladies view men as objects that are out to get nothing more than just sex. Is it not true that when a man approaches a female for a genuine relationship the first thing that crosses the ladies mind is the 6 date rule? If at the very instance, you have already set a time table when to give in, then doesn’t this beg the question, how do you see yourself?
The modern day thought on sex is such that, people should have it when one is ready and when that time is; the dependence is on the emotions of the body. Little do women know that men find sexual intimacy to be most satisfying within a committed relationship, however in as much as men sexualize the woman’s body it is a known fact that women do the same. The belief that men are more public about their sexual appetite is slowly becoming a thing of the past as more and more women seem to feel more abreast with publicly attesting satisfaction, with sexualizing the man’s body.
If the only reason that women give into sex is to ensure the pleasure of the opposite sex then it would stand to reason that, psychologically women are conditioned as objects for sexual pleasure. However with the rise of many movements that opposes the injustice of women their by attain equal rights on the basis of all, and then the voice against sexual objectification would soundly stand strong. However this has not been the case. Instead the fight has solely been on equal rights while everyone has been encouraged to explore their sexual appetites.
Then it stands to reason that in spite of some people generalizing the irritation against sexual objectification, “the desire that the opposite sex be submissive and be treated less than human as a matter of making them feel on a sub-level sexual slaves, the larger groups are silent because they do not feel the need to stand opposed to what they desire the most as most notably quoted, “the silent voice speaks louder than the loud voice”.
In as much as the more enjoy being sexually objectified, those who chose not to condone sexual objectification should be left alone. In the sphere of equality, just as they are women who do not feel it right to be objectified they are men who feel the same and both should be respected in their line of thought. As making one feel like a commodity or an object without regard to their personality or dignity is stripping the person of their humanity. This is the very narrative that the pornography industry has engraved into the thoughts of everyone that watches it. As men see how women are treated and women see how men are treated, both have inert desire to treat their partners that is displayed. This is so due to the impression of sexual satisfaction that the actors display on screen. This however is further from the truth, in as much as arousal in ignited with the viewer that is the only real thing that pornography will give you.
When it comes down to it all both men and women do objectify each other and unless a solution is brought forth on both sides the result will only lead to society that have no respect for one another. the question then remains, how do you see yourself?